I love going to the doctor. It’s my absolute favorite place to meet new friends.
I especially like meeting new friends at the doctor’s when I feel really sick or have a painful injury. I like to shove the icky, hurty part of my body in stranger’s faces, so they’ll poke at it, while slapping me on the back.
Sometimes I’m just there for an annual check up and I feel fine physically, but I’m nervous. I’m worried that I’m going to sit in the waiting room all day and be late for work. I’m anxious that I’m going to get a mean doctor that will pinch me and talk to me about my BMI again.
When I’m really stressed, that’s when I like to look around to see if there are any people I can make friends with in the waiting room. And when I feel this way, there’s nothing I enjoy more than when other patients run up to me and ask me to do a few Zumba moves with them before it’s my turn to see the doctor.
Yep, I love being sick and nervous, in a tiny space, with no way out, and meeting new friends at the same time.
And see that quiet lady in the corner who’s nervously eating a 100 calorie pack of almonds and trying not to make eye contact with me? I asked her to arm wrestle while I was waiting to pay my bill, but she said “No thank you”. The nerve!
So you know what I did? I turned to the receptionist and I said, in my best stage whisper, “Some people are so MEAN. I guess that patient’s not friendly, huh?” I sure showed her how rude she was for telling me no.
SCRREEEEECH! Hold the phone. This is bananaballs, right? No one wants to do group aerobics in the waiting room at the doctor’s. No one goes to the doctor’s to meet a new BFF.
So why are so many people doing this with their dogs in the waiting room at the vet’s office? If there’s ever a place where dogs need space from each other and the dog owners need to ask permission before their dog approaches another, it’s the vet’s office.
Seriously, why do I have to even explain this? But I do, because this happens constantly, every day, to DINOS owners at the vet.
Lots and lots of people seem to think that socializing at the vet is a good thing and dogs who can’t do that are “bad dogs”. Is it me, or do we have some totally out of whack expectations for dogs when they’re at the vet?
Dogs at the vet are sick, injured, anxious, stressed, or just plain don’t wanna play. It’s not the dog park. It’s a doctor’s office for dogs (and other small animals stuck in their carriers).
Next time you’re at the vet, keep in mind how much you would hate it if every time you went to the doctor’s office, you had to deal with a parade of “friendly” people who invaded your space, touching and poking at you, and talking non-stop. You would hate it and rightly so.
Common sense rules for the vet:
Keep your dog on leash when entering, leaving, waiting, and paying. That’s everything except the exam room.
Lock your flexi-leads. Don’t let dogs wander around, scaring cats and upsetting other dogs.
Ask permission before you allow your dog to approach another dog.
If they say “No”, just accept it.
Don’t call the other dog owner or the dog “mean”.
Don’t passive aggressively whisper about how “unfriendly” that other dog is.
News flash: When you do that, YOU’RE THE MEAN ONE. People go home and cry about how mean you were to them and their struggling dog.
To the staff at the vet’s office: please require and enforce the rule that all dogs must be on leash. Stand up for your clients when other’s treat them badly by reminding everyone that the waiting room is not a dog park and there are sick, injured, and stressed pets in the room – they have a right to their personal space. It’s just safer that way.
And a final note to DINOS families: If you can, wait outside or in the car with your dogs. Ask the staff to let you know when a room is ready, then go directly into the exam room. Ask if there is a back entrance (there usually is) that you can use, so you can avoid the waiting room entirely. Let the staff know ahead of time that your dog needs space – there may be a particular time of the day when it’s slow and you’re less likely to run into crowds.
Fair enough, right? We can do it folks. Respect, compassion, manners – we’ve got that.